This miracle is an odd mix of practical and extravagance. It feels…contradictory in a way. Practical things aren’t extravagant- its like the difference between a need and a want. Can they be the same- isn’t that cheating? This miracle stumps me but also excites me. I love seeing Jesus acting almost frivolous. It seems like this miracle is about Jesus helping people get drunk not on 3 buck chuck from trader joes but on a top shelf bottle that I wouldn’t even know the name of because splurging on wine for me is opting for the $12 bottle. For them to run out of wine would have been embarrassing and stopped the celebration but why should Jesus care about that? I’m surprised Jesus was even at this wedding event having a good time. We don’t really hear of Jesus’ social life much but here we see he has one. We also think of Jesus as so serious but what is Jesus is just an average guy that also likes to have fun? Why was he at this celebration? It shows Jesus in a different role than the son of God. Is he there because he wants to be- a friend’s wedding- is he there because it’s polite- a relatives wedding. We all have social responsibilities- we are friends of people, family of people, we are members of our community and so we participate. I don’t think Jesus happened to be at this party in his role as son of God but in another role- a social role. And I think it might be important. For each parable, each scripture there are numerous take aways and new lenses to see it through. I rarely hear sermons though that aren’t serious or trying to be profound. What if the revelation here isn’t veiled but straightforward- Jesus knows the importance of enjoying yourself, having multiple roles, not taking things so seriously? If there were ever a lesson the HS was trying to unveil, I think it would be this one right now. It’s freeing and oddly permission giving to think that Jesus went to a party to relax, unwind, and put the burden of the world off until tomorrow. I’m not sure we believe we can do this anymore. I think most would say it’s irresponsible or selfish or naive.
What is the real miracle here? He didn’t raise someone from the dead for his 1st miracle- he saves that for his last miracle- but he provided wine to keep a celebration going. In the book of John- Jesus’s opening scene is a miracle of frivolousness- he’s not feeding starving people or raising people from the dead and yet there has to be some importance to why Jesus began his ministry this way. Like any good campaign- your first big move lets people know what you are about- it’s all strategy. What is Jesus’ strategy here? I think its to say his campaign slogan or message is of Hope. God is in the everyday. God is actively working to right our wrongs through people. God is using us to be his miracles. Life isn’t just practical- it’s also extravagant- there are pleasures and joys and gifts here that we have been given. Not everything has to be dire all of the time.
We are almost 2 years into this pandemic and its hard to remember the carefree nature of going to parties such as this one- where you didn’t have to worry and plan and reschedule and spent countless hours talking and pondering whether it’s worth it to go to this event or that event. I am ready for a miracle. Maybe I am looking for the miracles in all the wrong places. Maybe the miracles aren’t happening in the practical ways we would expect but in celebratory, lavish ways. Maybe the miracle is that no matter what is happening in your life or the world- God still has gifts to offer you. Maybe these people weren’t going through a pandemic, but this wasn’t modern living. People were probably struggling for food and safety and there is no modern medicine and yet they still celebrate life. Things like drinking good wine at the end of the night- they matter. Maybe drinking isn’t your thing- but are you in a part in your life where that decadent dessert you splurge on at dinner brings you joy or that black label whiskey your friend brings over for a night cap is a real treat? Have we lost the ability to have our spirits brightened by the small stuff? I wrote this sermon on Thursday, so I tried to practice this idea on Friday. Jon went to Chicago to visit a friend for the weekend, so I tried to think of small things to indulge in. His mom had given us a gift card to trader joes and I decided instead of spending it on normal groceries that we needed- I wanted to spend it in a fun way. I wanted to spend it on the fun things you don’t really need, or the things you always wanted to try. It’s a pretty innocent act- I didn’t splurge on a $500 spa weekend but I chose to use the gift card for a want not a need. I got some fancy sparkling fruit water juice thing I would never have allowed myself to buy and those dark chocolate peanut butter cups and some fun cheeses. I want the ability to improve my life ever so slightly by being a tiny bit frivolous and extravagant.
This is a miracle of extravagance. We get a very detailed description of this miracle from John which is unusual because john is the heady one- he’s philosophical not logical. Starting at verse 6, John becomes unusually detailed in his description of what is taking place. He states that there were 6 stone jars- each that could hold 20-30 gallons, so we are talking big jars here and he makes sure that we know these jars were filled to the brim. With these details this story went from Jesus saving the bridegroom embarrassment because they ran out of wine to a story where Jesus acts in lavish and extravagant ways for the enjoyment of the wedding guests. Wedding events such as this lasted anywhere from 3-7 days. It would it have been an embarrassment to run out of wine during these festivities as well as something one could potentially be sued for but Jesus just didn’t provide enough to hold them over or provide them with any old wine. He provided them with top notch wine and probably over 120 gallons worth! Extraordinary amount of wine. Practical things in extraordinary amounts. Why this magnitude? This is the first of Superabundance of gifts through Jesus- feeding of the 5 thousand. Extravagant. First glimpse of the greater things.
I think this is Jesus’s opening act to show indeed this is a glimpse of greater things to come. To show that this symbolic transformation from water into wine is not what you think. We will actually be the ones transformed. We will be the ones to transform the world. New wine is made in old jars- symbolizing old forms are given new content. Creation of something new. His message is practical and yet extravagant. Transformation comes in both small ways and in big ways
I’m not going to lie. It was hard writing this sermon. This text is about transformation and hope and a proclamation that God is indeed intervening in the world. But I look around and I see the news and there is a flicker of doubt. I know he must be here but where? When will this all chaos end? I feel like a hypocrite and like my faith has failed me and then I remember the words of the psalmist which say, “How long, O Lord? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me? How long must I wrestle with my thoughts and day after day have sorrow in my heart? How long will my enemy triumph over me? Or “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? Why are you so far from saving me, so far from my cries of anguish? My God, I cry out by day, but you do not answer, by night, but I find no rest.”
I am reminded that doubt is a normal thing. I am reminded that my questions and frustrations are not new- they have been wrestled with for centuries. But I am also reminded that I am not alone. I am reminded that mixed in with these psalms of lament are words of praise and gratitude and trust. I am reminded that maybe the transformation is coming in the unexpected small ways. I am reminded that maybe the miracles are found in the extravagant and not the practical.
Maybe we are like Jesus’ mother Mary in this story, and we have no doubt that Jesus will come through- even if it looks different than we thought. Maybe we are Nathanial, and we already believe and seeing God work just enhances that faith more or maybe we are more like the servants in this story and we aren’t totally convinced. The servants realize the water was turned into wine but they do not realize the significance of this or what it points to. They think the greatest part is that now they have fancy wine to drink. The real truth though is that this is a sign that while comes in the form of an extravagant gift is pointing towards Jesus and his final hour. The hour when the transformation that changes everything will take place. In this story, the greatest enjoyment is not the copious amounts of fancy wine to drink but that just like this wine, Jesus is in the process of transforming us.
2 parts to this- extravagant gift giver and transformer. Both can be true and happen at the same time. If you are like me you have become so serious and focus solely on the transformation and how to make that happen and forget about the gifts we are given on this earth. I have forgotten to celebrate. I have forgotten to splurge on something better than 3 buck chuck. I have lost sight that transformation can be fun and light-hearted. Not everything has to be practical. It would be sad if God gives us these gifts to enjoy and we just completely miss them if we didn’t enjoy them.
Where have you stopped celebrating? Where do you need some extravagance?
I’m watching this show, Emily in Paris- where the main character Emily is always trying to work because she likes work but her colleagues keep telling her in France its illegal to work on the weekends. She’ll be at these lavish parties and trying to network and people look at her like she’s crazy because they don’t want to talk shop at a party- they want to party. It actually starts to detract from her work because that’s not their culture. The French stereotype that this show portrays is that they put a lot of emphasis on pleasure, enjoyment, and going after what they want in a way that many Americans would think was irresponsible but in it’s attempt to make fun of American work culture and our uptightness, I think there is some truth or at least a balance. This girl Emily is so practical she can’t enjoy the extravagance that is literally all around her- in the champagne, food, parties, celebrities. Maybe there is something to balance- having a good mix of practicality and extravagance. We forget Jesus is a mix of both- Jesus encourages both. Let our text today inspire and remind us to celebrate more and find frivolous ways to enjoy this world we are given. Amen.