I chose our scripture today because it is about equality. Each week in this series I am going to be focusing on a group of people the Church universal has created a broken relationship with. This week we are going to focus on people of color. This history of our particular racism within the church in the US goes back to when Christians in the united states used scripture as a reason for why slavery was not just accepted but encouraged. Slaves were considered less than human and the church did nothing to say this was wrong- in fact, many used the book of Philemon to justify these acts. Christianity followed the status quo- segregated churches, schools, laws- Aside from a select few the church as a whole did not blink an eye at people being treated less than human- the very institution that supposedly brought the love and grace of God to all peoples. This is where the “doing nothing” became a doing something because by doing nothing to stop the inhumane treatment they became accomplices, and this continues today.
So how as a church do we begin to reconcile this relationship? Especially if many of us are still accomplices in creating inequality? Again I include myself in this because there are many things out of habit or what I perceive as normal that I do that add to the unjust systems that perpetuate racism.
The best layout I’ve seen of how to reconcile goes like this: We understand the part we play. We confess of these actions. We actively try to create Equality. Thus The key question becomes how to create this? The Bible gives us examples on how to do this- for us we often think that to provide equality for someone else it does not mean taking away from ourselves but the Bible says differently-
Galatians 6:2 Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. Galatians 6:9 Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.
Philippians 2:3-4 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.
Hebrews 13:16 And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased.
Luke 3:11 John answered, “Anyone who has two shirts should share with the one who has none, and anyone who has food should do the same.”
1 John 3:17 If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person?
God is direct and to the point.
The Bible says if you want equality you have to give up something from yourself.
I’m going to say the word that triggers people- privilege- people have big reactions to this word. The reason we need to talk about privilege is because it is the thing that gets in the way of achieving equality. So when talking about trying to create equality between races we talk about white privilege because other races do not have the same equality as white people. So let’s get on the same page about what white privilege is- when someone has privilege it does not mean they have not suffered or have not been oppressed but in this case, it means those things have not happened because of their race or the color of their skin. That may happen as part of the system that was created around racism but not because they are white- but because others are not white. Creating equality for all people will also help all races- just as sexism hurts both sexes, racism hurts all races. I think many people are triggered by this because they feel as though being categorized as having white privilege scoffs at any hardship or suffering they might have endured- the term white privilege is simply trying to convey that there are certain advantages to being white. This comes in physical, emotional, mental, financial advantages etc.
What I have been learning is that by doing nothing- I am actually contributing to the problem. This is hard for us to accept. The problem is that so many daily or natural things we do to live feed into this problematic system of inequality. So, unfortunately, if we don’t intentionally choose differently, we are adding to the inequality.
I had to first mourn this before I could move on. I was grieving. We don’t just grieve death- we grieve things that aren’t as they should be, we grieve disappointment, we grieve missed opportunity, lost jobs, the end of a dream, a change of location and we grieve change. In grief there are 5 stages- denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance- many of us are in the denial stage- we say things like, “this isn’t actually the problem”, “I am not a part of this problem,” “this is not true”, “I don’t see evidence of this”- we are in denial because if it is true- we can’t avoid it any longer. I personally am passed the denial stage but I still get stuck in the anger phase or the bargaining stage. I am angry about things that are maybe not right for me to be angry at but I am going to share them with you because I think it’s helpful to know that maybe others have the same thoughts. I sometimes get angry that this is my generation’s duty to make it better. I am angry that we are on a self-awareness kick now and not 200 years ago. I bargain that if I change my thinking then do I not have to change my actions? When it comes to grief- it’s different for every person. The stages are not linear- you can go back and forth between them. And for each person it takes a different amount of time. This is where we can attempt to shed off some of that shame- when we understand we are grieving- that we are going through a process of realizing things are not what we thought- then maybe there is some grace. Maybe while our actions are bad, we are not bad people. We simply need to come to terms with this new understanding and work to make it right.
So instead of being ashamed of my privilege I have come to see it as a gift- not one that I have to be ashamed of but one that enables me to share and educate and provide and encourage others with. Scripture talks about having the privilege of sharing in the service of the lord. I have the privilege to use my education, my career, my good upbringing, my self-esteem, my influence, my finances to be a part of bringing about equality which as we see in our scriptures today is one of God’s main missions.
So at the end of each sermon in this series, I am going to take some time to talk about some ways we can move forward in this process: a what’s next of sorts.
The work to do is action but it may not look like action in the way you are used to. This is action through emotional work. It is choosing to carry the burden. Realizing you have the privilege to “turn it off” and others don’t. We can decide to carry this burden, put it down and pick it back up again. For others, they never receive the relief of getting to put it down.
And then there is the action of reflective work- asking yourself, why is it so exhausting and difficult to put my effort into furthering someone ele’s journey. Does it bother me to spend time furthering someone else’s journey rather than mine? Or asking, why is it so hard to admit I am part of the problem? For me, what is so exhausting- is my will to do it perfectly- we don’t want to engage unless we know we will be right- we don’t want to constantly be told- not quite or try again or make this adjustment or that- it takes a lot of energy out of us to constantly be corrected- but guess what? We have no idea what we are doing. We cannot learn how to do it any other way than by trial and error. We have to ask for help- we have to be prepared to write many drafts so to speak- it reminds me of when someone sends a book draft to an editor and when someone finally thinks it has something of worth they still want them to change most of it except for the glimmer of promise they see – its edit after edit after edit ( towards the end of college I just straight up skipped this step). I hate to edit.
So to begin our action looks like: reflect, reflect, reflect and do the emotional work of carrying the burden even when you don’t want to.
How do we carry burdens as Christians? Not alone but together. Create small groups between you and meet and talk about how you see these things coming up in your life. What is it like to carry the emotional burden? What has worked for some and what hasn’t? Going through something together is what makes it possible to do. You cannot do this alone- you will burn out. And the second thing we will do is pray that God will use us to do this work so lets end with this prayer:
Dear God,
In our efforts to dismantle racism,
we understand that we struggle not merely against flesh and blood
but against powers and principalities –
those institutions and systems that keep racism alive
by perpetuating the lie
that some members of the family are inferior and others superior.
Create in us a new mind and heart
that will enable us to see brothers and sisters
in the faces of those divided by racial categories.
Give us the grace and strength to rid ourselves
of racial stereotypes that oppress some of us
while providing entitlements to others.
Help us to create a church and a nation
that embraces the hopes and fears of oppressed people of color where we live,
as well as those around the world.
Heal your family God,
and make us one with you,
in union with our brother Jesus,
and empowered by your Holy Spirit.
~ written by the Pax Christi Anti-Racism Team. Posted on peaceonjustice and elsewhere. https://peaceonjustice.wordpress.com/